Goodnight Oppo and a Question..

"K-Roll-PorscheTamer" (k-roll390)
10/22/2014 at 01:07 • Filed to: Goodnight

There's a girl in my Engineering class who I can't help but notice is staring at me or turning to look in my direction multiple times during the class; and this has happened when I've sat in different spots in the room, including today. On one occasion, I we were watching a presentation in class, and I noticed out of the corner of mien eye that she was looking right at me, I waved slightly and she just stared and then looked away..I've never had this happen to me before and it's a little unnerving because I'm not sure whether or not to look back or do something. Am I over-thinking this Oppo? Looking to into this as usual? I'm honestly not sure how to approach this..

EDIT: I should note that I have talked to her outside of class maybe twice and she's a very nice person, but I really doubt that she'd be interested in nerdy K-Roll..

Anyways, goodnight! :)

DISCUSSION (76)

Bandit > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 01:11

She wants the Porsche Tamer...

PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 01:12

she might like you, or you had a spider on your shirt.

after class the next day, tell her you noticed her looking at you, introduce yourself, and stimulate convo

Denver Is Stuck In The 90s > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 01:15

Shes either incredibly racist, you had something on your face, or she looooves you.

YSI-what can brown do for you > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 01:19

Whenever women stare at me it always worries me.

JKER > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 01:29

Wait, a girl, in an engineering class? Something isn't right here.

But you should definitely initiate communication. Working on a study guide or something together is always easy.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Bandit
10/22/2014 at 01:31

Nah. I doubt that.

Eli's Got 2 > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 01:36

hey! You should totally say hi to her Karl! Maybe walk out after class and ask her a question about the class you just had... A follow up question... and go from there.... EDIT: don't listen to Denver. Lol

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power
10/22/2014 at 01:36

I only have class with her once a week, but I might see her later in the week. She knows me and we've done two class projects together in a group. Let's see what happens.

K-Roll is gonna be a risk taker now.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > YSI-what can brown do for you
10/22/2014 at 01:37

WUT DUZ IT MEAN

Eli's Got 2 > YSI-what can brown do for you
10/22/2014 at 01:39

*stares at you*

PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 01:40

might as well man! I took a risk, and kissed (on the lips, I'm no peasant, going for just the cheek) a really good friend of mine the other day, and that went very well for me! she didn't mention it afterwards, but her brother told me she was unusually happy all day... ;)

AMGtech - now with more recalls! > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 01:40

She's into you. Ask her out. Either that or she thinks you have Ebola.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > AMGtech - now with more recalls!
10/22/2014 at 01:42

How can we be sure? What if she's staring blank and I always happen to be in her way? Too much thinking.

Are there any signs??

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power
10/22/2014 at 01:43

Strange, I feel like we had a similar conversation a few months back in regards to something similar.

Denver Is Stuck In The 90s > Eli's Got 2
10/22/2014 at 01:44

I was on the phone with him when I made that comment, he knows Im kidding.

Eli's Got 2 > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s
10/22/2014 at 01:45

I figured. I was totally joking, too.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Eli's Got 2
10/22/2014 at 01:45

Demver is being funny lol. I just got off the phone with him. Since I've already talked and done some work with her, what should I do? Should I make note of the fact that she's been looking in my direction frequently?

Denver Is Stuck In The 90s > Eli's Got 2
10/22/2014 at 01:49

He and I have kind of a sibling relationship. He and I talk/text almost every day. Thats what I love about Oppo, Its about meeting people you wouldnt meet otherwise and sharing a common interest. I noticed you're authorship request a while back and I never wished you a proper welcome. So Welcome! I hope you stick around and find your own KRoll to be instant friends with

Eli's Got 2 > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 01:50

No, I mean.. That's weird. "Hey... I noticed you looking in my direction, baby...." Lol All you need is an ice-breaker topic and then see how she reacts. If the conversation starts about school... Segway it into something personal. Do you know anything about her? Like a TV show she watches... A food she likes... Do you notice anything you could discuss?

Eli's Got 2 > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s
10/22/2014 at 01:55

That's really cool. I've been around for a while, but thank you! I am friends with Brian and Rusto, and a few others. :D

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Eli's Got 2
10/22/2014 at 01:56

Well I certainly wouldn't say it like that. :p

I really don't know much about her either. Not enough to say anything personal. What kinda Ice Breaker are we talking?

Denver Is Stuck In The 90s > Eli's Got 2
10/22/2014 at 01:56

Rusto is an awesome person, Brian is cool too I just havent had as many conversations with Brian as I have had with Rusto.

AMGtech - now with more recalls! > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 01:57

There are signs, she's always starting and you're always in her way (meaning she always makes sure that you're in her way). I've been in this situation lots of times before but rarely had the balls to do anything about it only to find out later that they were totally in to me. But hey, no matter what she says if you ask her out she will stop staring at you.

Then again, it wasn't long after I started figuring this out and growing a pair that I met my wife...

Eli's Got 2 > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 02:06

I know you wouldn't... But don't. At all. Not yet... You guys can laugh about it later on if things happen. That's like one of those cute things you tease each other about.

So, like after class... Ask her a follow up question on something covered during lecture. Don't make yourself sound dumb, just ask her if you understood it right. You'll have to go with your gut. If you're too shy to outright ask her out, ask for her personal email or phone number in case you have any further questions. Then get to know her through studying.

Eli's Got 2 > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s
10/22/2014 at 02:10

It makes me so happy that everyone says that about Rusto. Yes, he's pretty amazing. He is the reason I'm on Oppo. I didn't even know it existed! :D Brian's like, my twin. We are always on he same page and he's funny as hell. He's great and I can always count on him to make me die laughing.

Denver Is Stuck In The 90s > Eli's Got 2
10/22/2014 at 02:12

Im like that with KRoll, It kinda scares me how similar we are sometimes. He's like my mental/emotional twin. Ive never been like that with anybody else, not even family.

PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 02:20

probably did...
It's usually called being a guy! (we always have this stuff happen, don't we??)
But yeah... she isn't the only one...

Note: I'm a slight man-whore, so this should come as to no surprise

At a party on Friday, after everyone but a very good friend of mine (not previously mentioned person) and I were left alone, we decided to watch a movie. we were cuddling, having fun, and then we just made out. this was both amazing and horrible. Amazing, since I've liked this girl for a long time. horrible, because she has a boyfriend. Luckily, the boyfriend thinks I was only hitting on her, which makes my life easier, but I really want to date her now....

#hopelessromanticguyproblmes

Eli's Got 2 > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s
10/22/2014 at 02:20

haha. I have a really close girl friend like that. It's scary how similar we are, yet we couldn't be more different in other areas. It's hard to explain, but I think you get it. She's not on Oppo even though she's a car fanatic. We'll be on the freeway checking out cars and swooning. Lol

Denver Is Stuck In The 90s > Eli's Got 2
10/22/2014 at 02:30

I completely get it, there are things that Im into that KRoll isnt, same Viseaversa yet we still mesh so well. Its a personality thing, not a common interest thing. He and I clicked Instantly. I hate texting, its too impersonal. But The day I gave him my my number we texted for 5 hours straight. It didnt feel impersonal when I texted him, Its like our brains operate on the same radio frequency.

shop-teacher > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 03:01

The fact that you've noticed her looking at you so many times, that you're asking us about it, is all the sign you should need. Did she seek you out to work on those projects too?

This man speaks the truth. I spent years chickening out, when I knew damn well a girl was into me. I also met my wife not long after I FINALLY grew a pair.

So much fun could've been had before that, if only I didn't convince myself that girls weren't into me. I never even gave them a chance to reject me, I rejected myself for them. Such a waste.

wheelhop > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 06:18

Kinja'd!!!

Haha. But really just say hey. Ask how she likes class and if she wants to study together

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power
10/22/2014 at 09:52

man-whore. :P

Never heard that term before.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > shop-teacher
10/22/2014 at 09:56

Well we got grouped into those projects, so it wasn't by choice, rather by chance that we were in the same group on both occasions.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > AMGtech - now with more recalls!
10/22/2014 at 09:57

Strange, because that's not how I figured this all works, but I guess lets see what happens?

Eli's Got 2 > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s
10/22/2014 at 10:37

OMG! I hate texting too! I use a lot of emojis and short answers. Haha It is very impersonal. I couldn't agree more. It's hard to find people with that mentality these days. We are an enigma. LOL That's so awesome that you guys have become such good friends. Oppo is love and friendship. :)

shop-teacher > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 11:23

I still say she's into you. Worst case scenario, she's not, and then you won't have to wonder anymore. You've got nothing to lose.

Denver Is Stuck In The 90s > Eli's Got 2
10/22/2014 at 12:23

We are a rare breed indeed, sometimes I feel like I fit in better in the 1960s. Now, I love electronics, and are very proficient with them, but Some things shouldnt be computerized. I shouldnt be able to check face book from my dashboard. And Most things require speech to say correctly. Oppo is awesome, there is no other place like it

Eli's Got 2 > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s
10/22/2014 at 12:55

I was like ... Wait. 1960s? Nope. I'll take today's tech and medical advancements any day of the week and twice oooooonnnnn...LOL I know, right? That's hilarious. I don't have a personal FB, so I'm good there. I don't use my car tech nearly as much as I could be. It scares me. Haha.

Denver Is Stuck In The 90s > Eli's Got 2
10/22/2014 at 12:59

Well 1960s in certain aspects. I dont have a Facebook either, I just dont see the point. My perfect car has only a radio and a tape deck/aux jack, cars dont have to be so complicated

Eli's Got 2 > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s
10/22/2014 at 13:08

Yeah. I get it. The whole being at dinner with someone and they are on their phone drives me insane. I will get up and leave and I have. Haha. Tape deck? How old are you? Lol I actually love car tech, though. I look at Tesla and I'm just like WOW. Gimme that now. Not only because of the electric car save the planet factor, or saving money on gas, but just straight up because it's a freaking amazing piece of machinery. Tesla is love. Lol

Denver Is Stuck In The 90s > Eli's Got 2
10/22/2014 at 13:10

Im actually 21, my thinking is very old school though. In my opinion while those accouterments are cool, I dont think they belong in a car. I think its important to be able to separate electronics from vehicles

Eli's Got 2 > Denver Is Stuck In The 90s
10/22/2014 at 13:16

I thought you were something like 20...21. That's cool that you think that way. I can guarantee a girl will come along that greatly appreciates it, too. Communication is the most important thing in any relationship/friendship. :) I like older cars, too. Don't get me wrong. But I do like my DD to have tech.

45bullets > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 17:14

even more motivation to fix your 911.

Stephen the Canuck > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 18:44

Have you actually never heard that before?

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Stephen the Canuck
10/22/2014 at 19:50

Nope. :( What does it mean?

Stephen the Canuck > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 19:58

It's basically means the guy is a slut.

PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power > Stephen the Canuck
10/22/2014 at 20:15

Truth is, I actually am, soooo...
good thing is, not a lot of girls at my school realized this yet, so I've got freebies!

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > 45bullets
10/22/2014 at 20:18

How is it?

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Stephen the Canuck
10/22/2014 at 20:21

That's a thing?? Who knew....Apparently not I.

AMGtech - now with more recalls! > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 21:24

Just ask her out. Worst thing that will happen is she will say no and you will feel embarrassed for a little while. But I don't think she'll say no.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > AMGtech - now with more recalls!
10/22/2014 at 21:40

Trust me, when I get embarrassed, it's a feeling that takes weeks to get over..But shouldn't I at least hang out with girl before asking out?

AMGtech - now with more recalls! > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 21:43

If you're not interested in dating her sure, otherwise you might just be asking for the friend zone.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > AMGtech - now with more recalls!
10/22/2014 at 21:52

So what you're saying, is if I hangout with her before asking her out, that=potential friendzone(which I don't want to get into), and I should simply ask her out to avoid that?

Stephen the Canuck > PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power
10/22/2014 at 22:01

You gotta admit, if her boyfriend finds out, you would deserve the results.

PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power > Stephen the Canuck
10/22/2014 at 22:38

he won't. the girl's fucked too if he learns this, so I get of relatively free! :D

AMGtech - now with more recalls! > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 22:57

Pretty much. Friend zone is debatable and getting into or out of it varies from person person, but yeah, more or less you should start out with the intention to date if you want to date.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > AMGtech - now with more recalls!
10/22/2014 at 22:59

Alrighty then, tension and nervousness ensues..

AMGtech - now with more recalls! > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/22/2014 at 23:14

Have fun and don't get to worked up over it!

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > AMGtech - now with more recalls!
10/22/2014 at 23:15

That's hard, how do I not get worked up?

Stephen the Canuck > PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power
10/22/2014 at 23:52

I guess. I would think he deserves to know if she can't be faithful. And she could end up doing the same to the next guy.

PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power > Stephen the Canuck
10/22/2014 at 23:56

I know, I know. Truthfully said, she and I talked about it for a good half hour after it happened. I'm the one who told her to tell him we did anything. If I had any common sense, I would've broken them up, since he's a controlling jerk, and he just uses her. I didn't want her to be unhappy though, so I told her even though I like her, and even though I know she likes me, she should decide for herself...

I messed up there, but oh well! I'm 16, and can afford these mistakes still

Stephen the Canuck > PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power
10/23/2014 at 00:06

True. You're very much in the live and learn stages of life. Relationships and the heart are very often not logical .

It won't be the same for everyone, so each person has to learn for themselves.

Good call on telling her to decide for herself. There would be a chance she would resent you for breaking up her relationship, irrational or not.

PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power > Stephen the Canuck
10/23/2014 at 00:07

preach.

hopefully, I find a good one soon enough! I'm hanging out with a car girl tomorrow, so lets see how that goes!

Stephen the Canuck > PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power
10/23/2014 at 00:11

You don't have to be in a hurry. You have a long life ahead of you. Car girl is good. You can always try to get a girl interested in them too if you have to.

PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power > Stephen the Canuck
10/23/2014 at 00:41

I have tried. and it has worked. My best friend is a girl, who knows a lot about cars (not the same as the previously mentioned one) she knows her stuff, but is useless as a mechanic (doesn't know jack) she can name cars, and dislikes stance, so we're good

AMGtech - now with more recalls! > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/23/2014 at 01:00

Weed? Kidding. Try not to think about it too much, just take action. It's not science. Everyone has different methods. I was never terribly successful with this whole thing though... But I can tell you for certain that you will regret not asking more than you will regret rejection.

Stephen the Canuck > PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power
10/24/2014 at 03:56

Hey it's a start. Not knowing jack means she can learn then.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Eli's Got 2
10/28/2014 at 00:58

Alas poor Rusto, thought he could hide forever did he? I too, enjoy a cigar at ze lounge every now and then... :)

Eli's Got 2 > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/28/2014 at 15:01

haha. Yeah, I think he knew you'd find it eventually. :)

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Eli's Got 2
10/28/2014 at 15:03

Of course! No one can of hidings from me. :P

Eli's Got 2 > K-Roll-PorscheTamer
10/28/2014 at 15:05

of hidings... LOL

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Eli's Got 2
10/28/2014 at 15:07

Improper grammar can, and will be funny if done correctly. :)